Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of A Rudland with the following comment:
My maiden name is - Rudland, and I am researching all Rudland Family Information. All the information will remain private with me only or Family Search Genealogical Site. Plus any information that I have, I will forward to yourselves for your records. I did offer to volunteer in the past, but I already assist FreeGenUK, with transcribing and have done for over 10 years. Therefore I don't have much time to assist with other Sites. I would love to assist, but don't have time. Thank you for your assistance in this matter. I may have to request more information on other 'Rudland' people, therefore, I hope this reason will cover the others. I remain yours, Julie Piggott